Everybody love sex! I guess so. That a nature. A living thing nature. From as low as animal till human. So what' the problem? Actually nothing. But as human there is norm or rule that say Sex only can perform after marriage ritual. Is that for sure? Yes for some traditions and religions. It an absolutely. Remember...some! means not all. There a traditions in this part of world which demand a couple perform sex before marriage to make sure that the woman can get pregnant. If she never get pregnant, the marriage consider never happen and the family will force the man to find another woman who can get pregnant and give a lot of descendant.
In this early years I find a new word to express sex relationship. It's called FUBU which mean I was told, is short of f*** buddy. Some people says this is a new relationship in this new millennia. But from my point of view it is not.
This relationship is already happen a thousand millions years before when the words "Love Betrayal" first time exist.
A FUBU is a couple or more who have a relationship with which is not committed but if they want sex, he or she be there for them. Most of that happen if marriage unwanted and sex on demand. To full fill the desire they will find someone who ready for them, without commitment or anything that disturbing such marriage ritual. Recently I was told that fubus can be found in heterosexual circles too. In this very day, that's happen in almost everywhere. Religions and traditions can't says anything to prevent that, it already a demand. Because Sex is a nature and human right. And no more shame. The women and men has same right, if they are in the mood, they bed them without blinking an eye. and later on, if either party is in the mood, they just call each other to fix a tryst.
And these people are not the screwed up people from broken homes or who had suffered abuse and want to take it out against a society or system that failed them. These are well-educated young people and mature adult. Some of them already have a "happy family" on his/her own and even a well know public figure in government or the owner of well established company who practice this type of relationship.
In my point of view F*** Buddy is ok as long as they are a single who don't have any relationship with anybody else. But forbidden for the one who already marriage and have a happy family. Because it can't called FUBU anymore but "Love Betrayal" or flirt or...what ever..
But if Sex on Demand? And Nature call?
